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Feb. 10th, 2003 01:58 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
jackofallgeeksJust had a very interesting conversation with a guy about Friends, Sex, Love, and everything inbetween... ^_^;; It was quite... interesting. It's conversations like that which remind me that, though I'm not quite as innocent as I pretend, I want to be.
Just a few quotes and comments, mostly things which I felt said something about me.
A lot of it you probably already know, but the conversation was worth recording -- sadly, like a stupid with which I am, I closed Trillian before saving the IM. Damnable.
Me: "I think a girlfriend should pretty much just be a best friend who lets you kiss her. That's about it."
Anyoneofus: "That sounds like a friend with benefits to me."
Me: "-shrugs- There's little difference, I think. One has a title."
Anyoneofus: "I'm a firm believer in the "you don't shit in your own backyard." You don't want to lose a friend, but eventually you will lose a girlfriend."
Me: "Yeah, that's something I'm afraid of with Claire and I. So far it hasn't happened yet. -phew-"
Me: You shouldn't ever feel forced into or out of a relationship -- it's spposed to be a comfort and a support, not a worry. You know what I mean? You should never be afraid of your relationship. Or something.
Anyoneofus: I just enjoy giving people pleasure. that's what it comes down to, really.
Me: I like giving people support. Mental, material, emotional -- I'm not a big physical-kinda guy, but sometimes it's the best way to express my affection.
Anyoneofus: "There has to be a lot of emotion there. Otherwise I'll just be lured away."
Me: "I'm a big ball of emotion. I'm really just looking for an outlet. In my experience, no one wants my affection."
Me: "When I say 'what gay men do is wrong,' I only mean it the same way as I think what straight couples do is wrong. I don't think people should have sex outside of marriage, regardless who you're scrumping with. I can't hold their feelings against them -- it's the same thing girls feel. And I can really sympathize with gay girls. They're all still people."
Anyoneofus: "That actually makes a lot of sense."
Me: "I'm a 20 year old virgin. Living proof that it can be done. You're not going to die without sex, and in the end, it'll mean more if you MAKE it mean more. If you save yourself, how much more important is it when you do finally give it?"
Me: "I'm the sorta guy who gets a thrill out of a girl laying on his shoulder -- I'll stick to the clean sort of enjoyment, thank you."
Me: "It's not about sex. It's about affection. It's about those little things, like holding hands, that no one ever thinks about. Those are the things that really matter, and without them... it doesn't even make much sense.
Just a few quotes and comments, mostly things which I felt said something about me.
A lot of it you probably already know, but the conversation was worth recording -- sadly, like a stupid with which I am, I closed Trillian before saving the IM. Damnable.
Me: "I think a girlfriend should pretty much just be a best friend who lets you kiss her. That's about it."
Anyoneofus: "That sounds like a friend with benefits to me."
Me: "-shrugs- There's little difference, I think. One has a title."
Anyoneofus: "I'm a firm believer in the "you don't shit in your own backyard." You don't want to lose a friend, but eventually you will lose a girlfriend."
Me: "Yeah, that's something I'm afraid of with Claire and I. So far it hasn't happened yet. -phew-"
Me: You shouldn't ever feel forced into or out of a relationship -- it's spposed to be a comfort and a support, not a worry. You know what I mean? You should never be afraid of your relationship. Or something.
Anyoneofus: I just enjoy giving people pleasure. that's what it comes down to, really.
Me: I like giving people support. Mental, material, emotional -- I'm not a big physical-kinda guy, but sometimes it's the best way to express my affection.
Anyoneofus: "There has to be a lot of emotion there. Otherwise I'll just be lured away."
Me: "I'm a big ball of emotion. I'm really just looking for an outlet. In my experience, no one wants my affection."
Me: "When I say 'what gay men do is wrong,' I only mean it the same way as I think what straight couples do is wrong. I don't think people should have sex outside of marriage, regardless who you're scrumping with. I can't hold their feelings against them -- it's the same thing girls feel. And I can really sympathize with gay girls. They're all still people."
Anyoneofus: "That actually makes a lot of sense."
Me: "I'm a 20 year old virgin. Living proof that it can be done. You're not going to die without sex, and in the end, it'll mean more if you MAKE it mean more. If you save yourself, how much more important is it when you do finally give it?"
Me: "I'm the sorta guy who gets a thrill out of a girl laying on his shoulder -- I'll stick to the clean sort of enjoyment, thank you."
Me: "It's not about sex. It's about affection. It's about those little things, like holding hands, that no one ever thinks about. Those are the things that really matter, and without them... it doesn't even make much sense.
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Date: 2003-02-10 07:07 pm (UTC)no subject
Again - lovely to meet you, Mere. :D
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Date: 2003-02-11 04:14 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-02-11 05:40 pm (UTC)