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So, I decided to remove that lady, Crystal, from my Friend's List.
I really hate removing people. I don't know, maybe it's the sense of failure, or giving up, that seems to come with it, but things have to be either (a) really damn bad, or (2) really not even there, before I drop someone, generally. And, aside from even that, I'm reluctant to unfriend anyone because of the implied 'I don't like you' that comes with it -- which, really, is why things have to be pretty bad off to begin with. Or something.
The fact of the matter is, though, that I really don't like who she is, or at least who I've seen her t be. She seems to be a rather petty, mean-spirited, overtly (and overly) sexual... There's just a coarse lack of style and refinement in her that turns me the wrong way, and her overly-sexual and crude sense of humor is very grating to me. Her posts, for the most part, were just a sore on my page, which I would really sooner do without.
And so, I am.
I really hate removing people. I don't know, maybe it's the sense of failure, or giving up, that seems to come with it, but things have to be either (a) really damn bad, or (2) really not even there, before I drop someone, generally. And, aside from even that, I'm reluctant to unfriend anyone because of the implied 'I don't like you' that comes with it -- which, really, is why things have to be pretty bad off to begin with. Or something.
The fact of the matter is, though, that I really don't like who she is, or at least who I've seen her t be. She seems to be a rather petty, mean-spirited, overtly (and overly) sexual... There's just a coarse lack of style and refinement in her that turns me the wrong way, and her overly-sexual and crude sense of humor is very grating to me. Her posts, for the most part, were just a sore on my page, which I would really sooner do without.
And so, I am.
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Date: 2003-12-27 08:05 pm (UTC)