Hey, who remembers this old song-and-dance?

Andrew: Odd, you and Trevor have very similar, rather angry/upset messages. You doing alright?
Rose: no :(
Andrew: Meowr?
Rose: he's been pissed alll week now he says i've done something that i could have swarn no doing
Rose: iand feel like his message was totally dirrected at me
Rose: :(
Rose: urg
Andrew: Mew. that's not cool.
Andrew: I'd ask for details, but I won't press.
Rose: i know yet the problem is that i might have done it by acedent with out even realizing it
Andrew: How could you do it by accident?
Rose: he couldn't find his phone holder this morning and called me cause i took a nap up there yesterday and when i did i had to take the stuff off his bed so i must have missed it or just didn't see it and it feel onto the floor where he found it but almost stepping on it this mornign
Rose: I feel horribale cause if i had seen it there it i would haave moved it
Andrew: ...
Andrew: This is over a phone clip?

-facevault-
OK, right off the bat, Rose gets my sympathies, just by virtue of my bias toward ladies. But every time, I sit back and I think: Really, this isn't just him at fault. She's been with the guy for the last three years, off and on. And she's put up with his shit, and they've broken up, and they've gotten back together. And every time I say "Rose, you're a nice girl. You could do so much better." And she says "I know." And nothing changes.

I won't say it's an abusive relationship. I lived with Trevor a couple years ago. He's not all bad, but I will say that he can be very petty, self-centered, and inconsiderate. In great part, it's this that causes all the problems he has, I think. But Rose can be an equal match for his faults as well; neither of them were overly kind when I was dealing with my break-up. And she always convinces herself that it's better, easier, or more secure just to stay with him, I guess.

Sometimes, I think they're a perfect match.