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Apr. 10th, 2003 10:03 am![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
"The king of all things was... ThingKing..."
Like I was telling a friend the other day, change is good. Life is change; without change there is no life. I'm a very relationship-oriented person, and it holds that when a relationship falls into stasis, it dies...
"Did I tell you about Sammy Jenkins? Only everytime I see you. Don't worry, the story gets better everytime you tell it."
Sometimes I feel like I just keep saying the same things over and over... And though it's not a matter of never getting over it, it seems the same things just swing back and hit me everytime. The best advice I've gotten recently, and from several sources, is not to force things. Change doesn't happen over night. So then, how long will it take me to finally be able to not force things?
I'm afraid of losing friends. Always have been, and I think I always will be. I can think of a great number of friends I used to have, and a handful who have recently slipped off... and perhapse, even a number who are falling away even now. We're just growing apart. That doesn't make it any easier. I don't like losing friends.
I feel not-quite-empty this morning, and I can't say why. I think, maybe, I've fallen into a stasis. I don't know... maybe I should just go get something to eat...
I wonder, sometimes, if maybe I should just pretend like nothing's bothering me... Maybe it would make things easier on my friends or something. I used to play that game, long before most of you met me. I didn't like it then, and I wouldn't like it now. But I wonder, sometimes...
Like I was telling a friend the other day, change is good. Life is change; without change there is no life. I'm a very relationship-oriented person, and it holds that when a relationship falls into stasis, it dies...
"Did I tell you about Sammy Jenkins? Only everytime I see you. Don't worry, the story gets better everytime you tell it."
Sometimes I feel like I just keep saying the same things over and over... And though it's not a matter of never getting over it, it seems the same things just swing back and hit me everytime. The best advice I've gotten recently, and from several sources, is not to force things. Change doesn't happen over night. So then, how long will it take me to finally be able to not force things?
I'm afraid of losing friends. Always have been, and I think I always will be. I can think of a great number of friends I used to have, and a handful who have recently slipped off... and perhapse, even a number who are falling away even now. We're just growing apart. That doesn't make it any easier. I don't like losing friends.
I feel not-quite-empty this morning, and I can't say why. I think, maybe, I've fallen into a stasis. I don't know... maybe I should just go get something to eat...
I wonder, sometimes, if maybe I should just pretend like nothing's bothering me... Maybe it would make things easier on my friends or something. I used to play that game, long before most of you met me. I didn't like it then, and I wouldn't like it now. But I wonder, sometimes...
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Date: 2003-04-10 11:36 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-10 11:37 am (UTC)[rimshot]
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Date: 2003-04-10 12:18 pm (UTC)Now... where was I?
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Date: 2003-04-10 12:22 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-10 12:36 pm (UTC)Yeah...
Date: 2003-04-10 12:49 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2003-04-10 01:52 pm (UTC)I assure you, you are not a bother -- to anyone, near as I can tell, and Mark saying so should help validate that.
As for me... -shrugs- I think too much, and I start thinking that people don't want to hear what I have to say... I sit here listening to myself, and when I start getting sick of listening to myself, I figure no one else wants to listen to me, either. And then that's the worst, because that's usually when I need someone to talk to the most.
I can get myself into a pretty tight spot if I'm not careful where I'm thinking...
That's a shame about Thursday -- it's alright, though, cause Tina managed to convince a couple of her girl friends to come play, too. -devilish grin- I would have seen if it could be moved a day later, myself, as that's my first day out of classes, but one of Tina's friends can only make it on Thursday and, well... it's not like he's the most important if you catch my meaning... ^_~
Anyways, yeah, I'd love to meet you in Fredericksburg. Wednesday is bad for me, as I'm still in classes, but Friday would work perfectly (so long as I'm home for dinner). Gimme a call or something and we'll work it out.
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Date: 2003-04-10 01:52 pm (UTC)