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-smiles-
Today, I helped defend my cousin, Kealan, from attacks against her when she voiced her opinion againt that of our Elders. I disagreed with her, sure, but our Elders were not looking entirely at the facts of the situation, and one in particularly seemed to be willfully and unthinkingly blind to anything at all. To quote Voltaire, "I may disagree with what you have to say, but I shall defend, to the death, your right to say it."

I just lost my train of thought...

Passing Thoughts

Modesty.

Recently, passing through Friends' journals and reading through Friends' Friends' journals, I've stumbled upon the issue of modesty and who's 'responsible.'

That sounds quite awkward.
Who's responsible? Who's responsible for what?

Tori Amos was quoted, "So I wore a slinky red thing, does that mean I should spread?" Tori has such a way with words. The point was, if a girl wears 'immodest' clothes, and some guy has impure thoughts, who's at fault? Surley not the girl, it was argued, because surely she wasn't inviting it, or asking for it, or what have you.

Take a step back. Tori's song is about rape. I'm not touching that subject, and my comment that she "wasn't asking for it" isn't meant to apply there.

That having been said, it takes two to tango. I think it's a commonly accepted belief that men struggle with lust quite a bit. Every two minutes, it's been claimed. The thing of it is that while, yes, men have a responsibility to control themselves, doesn't it also follow that women have a 'responsibility' to not tempt, directly or indirectly? If you're trying to help an addict, you don't wave heroine in front of him. Is it not irresponsible, to some extent, for women to put us into that situation?

-shrugs- Maybe it's just me. You know, I can be odd at times. But still, it seems only reasonable that if a girl's walking around exposed, at least some of the blame is hers. -shrugs-

Vector: chipuni

I got this meme from wandering around my Friends' Friends page...

What songs would you incorporate into the soundtrack of my life?