Bad Idea

[jackofallgeeks]

I need someone (everyone?) to remind me why trying to get back in touch with
Suzannah would be a Bad Idea (tm).

Comments

[shibakiei.livejournal.com]

exes are exes for a reason.

(I am only assuming she is an ex, if not, this is hilarity)

[metis2be.livejournal.com]

She's a ho-bag, what more reason would you need?

Seriously, she cut you off without having enough respect for you to even give you a reason, do you really walk to talk to that kind of girl again?

If that's not reason enough, let me know, I can be meaner.

[starlight1184.livejournal.com]

It's simple dear -
She asked you not to.

I'm happy to expand on the point, but I'm not sure it's necessary.

[thismortalquill.livejournal.com]

I might get lambasted here, but the bits that I do know about you (the rather act than not-act part) leaves me endorsing an attempt to contact her. I was around for the after-Claire madness, here through the Suzannah saga, and for various other chats and laments.

From my worldly experience, even with the way things were severed, time does change a lot of things.

I am not encouraging you to get your hopes up, but there is no harm in dropping a hello in order to satisfy your curiosity. Granted, rejection will open up a lot of old wounds, but if it were me, the chance that I'd possibly get a *friend* back would be worth a try.

One try.

And then grieve and move on.

[bsgnome.livejournal.com]

I'm going to have to echo Rachel: She asked you not to.

If I recall properly, she was pretty clear on that point.

It may seem like a "stupid" reason, but it's really not; it would be one thing to randomly run into her on the street, but to actively seek her out ... I'm inclined to say that it'd be better to just forget about her.

Sorry my reply isn't all sunshine and roses, and sorry that I can't logically explain why not contacting her is the best course of action. It's just that there's this sense in the back of my mind that it would only be a wate of everyone's time (and emotional fortitude).