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John Noble ([personal profile] jackofallgeeks) wrote2008-03-06 04:39 pm

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I'm stunned. And this is going to be all sorts of shallow and I'm-a-horrible-person, but...

So, long story short, I've gotten in touch with a number of old friends through Facebook. It's a big part of why I like the place. But in the last couple weeks I've gotten in touch with a couple girls I used to be good friends with, and... To be blunt, holy shit, they put on A LOT of weight!

Now, I'm not the picture of health, or even dietary concern, myself. I weigh about 190lbs, but I'm also nearly 6ft tall. I'd like to get down to, say, 175 or so, but I don't think anyone would call me fat. There girls are fat, to the point where they look bloated or swollen. Their faces are familiar, but all wrong. And they were both small girls when I knew them. That was YEARS ago, like 5 and 6 years ago, but I just can't understand how someone can let themselves go like that.

I feel a little bad, like the way I feel when I inwardly snear at the people in Walmart, but...

[identity profile] jackofallgeeks.livejournal.com 2008-03-07 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
(1) I saw old pictures of you. Unless you were significantly heavier at some point before (or after, I guess) I met you, then it's not even on the same scale. You would have to have gone from those old pictures to at least twice what I know you as, maybe more.

(2) Yes, there are many reasons people gain weight. Yes, not all of them can be controlled by the person in question. Yes, it can be very hard to lose weight.

(3) I am a horrible person for this. It's a deep-seated reaction which, I think, is based in fear. I still can't excuse myself.