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[jackofallgeeks]

I want to give up on romance.
I think I'd be happier if I didn't care.

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[photoholic62.livejournal.com]

Then don't give it up. Give it a break. You have your goals ... you have to do well in school to be able to get a job that will support a family. You will at some point have to decide where to live, where to work. Fine. Concentrate on the school part, just for now. Don't be thinking "It'll never happen, so I quit." Just think ... "Ok, she's not here yet, that's ok because I have to do this first." Your goal is to have a family and to be able to support said family. Great. Break it down into steps. First step, complete your education. "Find her" is an overall goal that does not have to happen in any particular order. Well, it has to happen before the "have a baby" step, but it doesn't have to happen before the "complete my education" step, or the "find a good paying job with benefits and security" step. I hope I am explaining myself well.