http://otakulk.livejournal.com/ ([identity profile] otakulk.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] jackofallgeeks 2003-01-09 03:58 pm (UTC)

If you have trouble conveying your thoughts and feelings, but hate assumption, you put yourself ina tough position. Nobody will know how you feel unless you come out and say it, and you can't just expect people to know how you are feeling, because then you want them to assume...

::head spins::

You just gotta do what you feel man, if she didn't write back, forget about it. Be proud that you wrote in the first place. Let it go. If you think someone is getting what you mean, keep trying until they do.

Don't think that your assumptions are always wrong, but don't think that they are right either. When you get in a situation like that, its totally a gamble. You are betting your instinks against comfort. The problem is you have to decide if you want to wager. Do you want to take a chance in hope of something good? Or do you want to settle for what you have? Don't always go for the safety. Don't be the guy who always thinks about the way things coulda been. Keeping things confortable are good, it gives us stability and friendship. But you can't always play it safe, you can't forget to live.

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