That icon wasn't a personal attack on you. :p
"Good grammar is next to godliness," as they say.

I like dark music (as you well know), but I'm really not so much into screaming-type. Lyrics mean to much to me; in fact, if I can't understand the lyrics (for whatever reason) that really turns me off from a band. And I've been turned off from some goth-type rock bands that could have been really good -- nice female vocals and haunting melodies -- until the male voice comes in yelling or dreadfully low or otherwise distorted. Just not good stuff.