She obviously seemed "out of it". In that, the coffee bit specifically. well, that and I think any woman who doesn't leave a cheating man is crazy. But- I guess, I supposed I connected her distress to the actions, and not to a mental problem. The thing is with women - in some cases - and I should probably re-read the story - but in some cases, all of those "actions" are completely normal, when one is under a lot of stress. Perhaps solidify the incidences so they are more apparent. If that helps at all.