I don't know, my first thought is that for a 19 year old girl she doesn't think much for herself. She is so concerned about what her father thinks everything should be like. Also for a 19 year old to let her father "break off your plans" is a little curious also. Shawn has a ton of friends who are girls, it is a natural thing. I have plenty of male friends. We try not to do much going out separatly because we enjoy being together and knowing eachothers friends, but that is not always possible. I agree with you when you say if she/he is going to be unfaithful to you it will happen one way or another. I guess not going out with the oppisite sex may prevent the temptaion being their more often. But if you truly love one another(mutually) neither one of you would allow that to happen. Love is a chocie you have to make and you HAVE to work HARD at it in order for it to last. There definitly has to be trust. If there is none how do you know that the late night meeting at work is not an appropriate metting with a member of the oppisite sex. You have to be able to trust that it is not and that it never will be. If you have not even started dating and she is already nopt giving you the benifit of the doubt, then she is probably not the right person for you. That could be the very thing that you say is "missing". It is a sence that you get from her, there is probably a real reason you are having that feeling. I hope all that makes sense and helps.
So many thoughts....
Shawn has a ton of friends who are girls, it is a natural thing. I have plenty of male friends. We try not to do much going out separatly because we enjoy being together and knowing eachothers friends, but that is not always possible.
I agree with you when you say if she/he is going to be unfaithful to you it will happen one way or another. I guess not going out with the oppisite sex may prevent the temptaion being their more often. But if you truly love one another(mutually) neither one of you would allow that to happen. Love is a chocie you have to make and you HAVE to work HARD at it in order for it to last. There definitly has to be trust. If there is none how do you know that the late night meeting at work is not an appropriate metting with a member of the oppisite sex. You have to be able to trust that it is not and that it never will be. If you have not even started dating and she is already nopt giving you the benifit of the doubt, then she is probably not the right person for you. That could be the very thing that you say is "missing". It is a sence that you get from her, there is probably a real reason you are having that feeling. I hope all that makes sense and helps.