I agree. dikaiosunh, you are well spoken, and made these points much better than I would have.
Andrew, another point ... she seems to be having some trouble trusting you, without even giving you time to earn the trust, or to earn being untrustworthy. (Looks like she gets that from her Father.) You both should just step back a minute, think... have either of you done anything to cause a lack of trust? Probably not, so why cross that bridge now? Even if the relationship does not work out long term, it may be a good chance for you to teach her other aspects of trusting than what she has learned from her Dad.
Frankly, I would trust you more than I would trust her father, because this sort of response usually comes from being one who can't be trusted. You know, a liar thinks that everyone lies, a theif thinks that everyone steals .... He is assuming that you can't be trusted with other females, why is that? Because he can't be?
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Andrew, another point ... she seems to be having some trouble trusting you, without even giving you time to earn the trust, or to earn being untrustworthy. (Looks like she gets that from her Father.) You both should just step back a minute, think... have either of you done anything to cause a lack of trust? Probably not, so why cross that bridge now? Even if the relationship does not work out long term, it may be a good chance for you to teach her other aspects of trusting than what she has learned from her Dad.
Frankly, I would trust you more than I would trust her father, because this sort of response usually comes from being one who can't be trusted. You know, a liar thinks that everyone lies, a theif thinks that everyone steals .... He is assuming that you can't be trusted with other females, why is that? Because he can't be?
::shrugs::