I don't think you should take that as an attack or insult towards you, Andrew. In reality, it has nothing to do with you at all. In fact, I'd probably guess that her situation was a lot like mine when I was younger and that she didn't lie, or turn gay... but rather just realized something she'd known before. It does happen that way.

(This is probably why I never like to tell people my story. They see it as my changing from one to the other, and that's just not how it was.... and it had nothing to do with anyone but myself and something I had repressed over the years under the cover of being really homophobic.)

Some weird point I'm not making well is that people can realize things about themselves that haven't been brought to light before. Then again, I don't know how she worded it or how she came to realize this, nor how long she's known. Sometimes teenagers are, shall we say... flighty. I know a few people who, after a month of being "gay" decided that they were very straight. I don't know how that is since, of course, I've tried that and it doesn't work.

But still. Try not to take it as something personal. I'm sure that's not why she told you or what she meant by it. Although I'm sure you know that, too, being oh-so-wise and Andrew-ish. ^__~;;;